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Nightlife Guide Sweden , How to act like a typical Swede<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

In this post I’d like to focus on the party habits of those Swedes in the typical party age, say between 20 and 35. An age when most Swedes live in a place they don’t have to share with their parents or kids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to party like a Swede<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Chronologically, follow theses steps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On a typical Friday evening…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Go home from work or studies<\/li>
  2. Get prepared, choose some stylish cloths (Dress like a Swede<\/a>)<\/li>
  3. Send a message to the host to check if it’s okej<\/em> to bring a friend<\/li>
  4. Fill a little plastic bottle with the alcoholic drink of your choice. Alternatively, if you are a generous person and want to share your drink with others, take a bag-in-box of wine with you<\/li>
  5. Put it into a plastic bag from systembolaget (Swedish state-owned alcohol store)<\/li>
  6. Take the bus or go by bike to the preparty<\/li>
  7. Enter the place<\/li>
  8. Say “n\u00e4men tjeeena” to the host, give him or her an awkward hug<\/li>
  9. Take off your shoes (make sure you have previously chosen representable socks)<\/li>
  10. Make a round, shake hands with everyone and introduce yourself to those you haven’t met yet by simply saying your first name<\/li>
  11. Don’t remember any of the names of the other guests you just met<\/li>
  12. … apart from that snygging<\/em> (handsome) you later want to talk to<\/li>
  13. Go to the kitchen to put your other beer cans or drinks into the fridge<\/li>
  14. Drink (Drink like a Swede<\/a>)<\/li>
  15. Talk to random person standing in the kitchen<\/li>
  16. Ask them from where they know the host<\/li>
  17. Drink more<\/li>
  18. Have a seat on the crowded sofa<\/li>
  19. Talk to the person next to you about what they are drinking<\/li>
  20. Observe how the atmosphere and level of alcohol increases inside of you and others<\/li>
  21. Let your conversation get interrupted by someone increasing the volume of the music<\/li>
  22. Feel awkward when that person who had already a few too many drinks and wants everyone to join for a dance<\/li>
  23. Raise and move your body in almost rhythmic ways to the sounds of ABBA or Swedish House Mafia<\/li>
  24. Have another zip to overcome the feeling of awkwardness for a few seconds<\/li>
  25. Avoid the dance floor in the living room and that shouty sing-along by going to the kitchen for a chat with the other non-screamers<\/li>
  26. Chat about when to leave to avoid a long queue in front of the pub<\/li>
  27. Between 22.00 and 00.00 leave the preparty, after the host stopped the music and shouted “Nu drar vi!”, “Now let’s go!”<\/li>
  28. Before leaving, get stuck in the queue to the toilet that everyone needs to use, except those who spontaneously decide to release water outside in the behind the bushes or lamp posts<\/li>
  29. Put on your shoes, notice you collected dust and your sticky socks, because they are slightly soaked with beer spill<\/li>
  30. Walk to the pub\/bus station<\/li>
  31. Speak loudly on the way there<\/li>
  32. Join the queue<\/li>
  33. Get approached\/approach foreigners and ask them what they are drinking out of their little plastic bottles<\/li>
  34. Sing a snapsvisa<\/em> (snaps song\/drinking song)<\/li>
  35. Get rid of your drink before you can be seen by the Security guards (remember, it’s not allowed to drink alcohol in public in Sweden)<\/li>
  36. Show your ID at the entrance of the club<\/li>
  37. Leave your jacket at the wardrobe (probably the last moment you chatted with the new friends from the preparty and queue)<\/li>
  38. Join the queue at the toilet before joining the next queue at the bar<\/li>
  39. Hit the dancefloor<\/li>
  40. Start flirting (how to flirt in Sweden will be described in a later post)<\/li>
  41. Get seriously drunk<\/li>
  42. Send fylle-sms<\/em> (drunk texts) to your partner\/or KKs (friends with benefits) saying you look forward to\/would like to see him or her later<\/li>
  43. If you, as a single, receive an answer, you know you have a backup for the night. If no answer or fancy someone else for a chnage, keep on drunk-dancing or chatting up someone at the bar, asking “Vad dricker du f\u00f6r n\u00e5got?<\/em>“, “What are you drinking?”.<\/li>
  44. Tell the person you are talking to that you are seriously drunk – just because<\/li>
  45. Ask “where is the afterparty” if you don’t have anyone to spend the night with<\/li>
  46. Ask “wanna have an afterparty” if you do want to spend the night with that specific person<\/li>
  47. Go home to or with the partner of your choice if not too drunk to do so<\/li>
  48. But first stop by at a fast food place to get something to eat (or, if you have no one to go to, desperately try to find someone who is in the same desperate situation as you)<\/li>
  49. Go home<\/li>
  50. Protect (Just do it! I know it’s hard to want to remember when you’re drunk. But come on it’s better for the both of you. Probably.)<\/li>
  51. Have fun<\/li>
  52. Wake up with a bad hangover, hoping the other person left already<\/li>
  53. Turn your head around noticing you are at that other person’s place, and that it’s you who hasn’t left yet<\/li>
  54. Leave<\/li>
  55. Go to your home,<\/li>
  56. Look forward to food and an Alvedon<\/li>
  57. Get more sleep<\/li>
  58. Get prepared for a night out on Saturday<\/li>
  59. Text your friends where to meet for a preparty<\/li>
  60. … repeat<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    More about Swedish culture & quirks: \u201cHow to be Swedish \u2013 A Quick Guide to Swedishness \u2013 in 55 Steps<\/em>\u201d, here on Amazon<\/a><\/p>

    \"Book<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n

    Some rules to remember when you party in Sweden<\/h2>\n\n\n\n