Have a liberal attitude towards sex – How to be Swedish

There are some stereotypes about Swedes which I would like to disprove and some I’d like to confirm.

Rumor has it that Swedes get naked whenever possible and that they have sex with everyone or at least everyone who can get naked within just a few seconds. Is that true? Let’s find out further below…

Sexually open-minded Swedes

One reason why Sweden is perceived as sexually liberal might be the Swedish movies from the 50s and 60s, in a few of those bare female breasts were shown. In those days unthinkable in many other countries. Popular movies of that time “Hon dansade en sommar”, or “Sommaren med Monika”. (Here you notice again the Swedes’ love for summer times. When else do they get the opportunity to get their cloths of outside?)

Also, in 1955 Sweden introduced as the first country in the world, obligatory sexual education in primary schools. The goal was to teach pupils in early ages how to protect from unwanted pregnancy.

Strong feminism

You won’t find any strip clubs in Sweden or strongly sexualized advertisements or TV-shows, depicting naked women in primarily sexual roles. This should not be interpreted as sexual prudery but rather where the sexualized display of the female body to solely please male desires is doomed by the majority of the Swedish society as sexist.

Being a feminist is something the majority of the Swedes pride themselves with. Many Swedish women tend to be or strive to become “strong and independent”.

Stereotypes

A stereotype about Swedish women is that their attitude to sex can be considered as, well, “welcoming”.
Swedish men on the other hand are often considered as shy.

If you watch Swedish men and women in a night club. You might get the impression this stereotype can be considered as confirmed. But, hey, Swedish men aren’t that shy at all, they are simply used to more flirt-active females. So why rushing, if the girls are allowed to pick up the guys as well, without being judged as “easy”.

KK

If you’re single, get yourself a KK – or five.

KK is an acronym for knull kompis, which means “f*ck buddy” or “friend with benefits”. A friend recently said, when she found herself to be single after a long term relationship, her goal was to have at least five KKs, at the same time. After asking her for her progress a few of weeks later, she replied in a disappointed way that she only got three.

Nudity

Another stereotype is that Swedes get naked more easily. And indeed, going naked into a sauna or for a Swim in a lake isn’t unusual in Sweden. Maybe not too common when many people are watching, but not uncommon among friends or when only a few strangers are present.

“Sex, tax & suicide”

In the 60s, American president Eisenhower said Sweden is a country of “free sex, high tax and suicide”.
First of all Swedes aren’t as suicidal as many believe. (In the European comparison of suicides per inhabitants Sweden is listed on rank 15. Only strongly catholic countries have lower rates of suicide. One reason why the rumor of suicidal Swedes has made the round is that it was one of the first countries to create statistics on this matter.)

Secondly, as we found out in a previous post on Swedish tax, they are higher, yes, but you also get more in return you’d otherwise have to pay for.

And then “free sex”. Well, if both want it, and then do it, then in normal cases no one will swisha pengarna (transfer money via a banking app) after the intercourse, will they?

Sexually active Swedes

Some say Swedes have a lot of sex. Of course, long cold winters force Swedes to stay inside. Many Swedes live more than a few kilometers away from a city. So what else can be more entertaining than getting cosy under a blanket on a cold winter night. But Swedes don’t stop when it gets warmer. Finally they can spend more time enjoying the actual act than removing those massive layers of winter cloths.

The amount of reproductive intercourse reaches the climax on midsummer day (end of June). This is probably the result of stimulation caused by hour long dances around something that represents a phallus, the midsummer pole. This again results in a noticeable higher birthrate nine months later, in the end of March. The most popular date Swedes choose to exit their mother’s body and enter the world, nude, is the 22nd of March.

 

So dear new-Swede, get rid of your shameful associations with sex and start start seeing it as stimulating pleasure.

 

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